I havent read all the posts,so maybe its already been said:
they will try to get your children on their side, and then, the logical goal is to get your own children to shun you.
Not today, or tomorrow, but sometime in the future.
"If you love your mum and dad, then you should shun them..."
Then you will be the ones with no body. Yes thats how loving they are in this cult. And they will be able to justify themselves too.